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Matching Accomplished Executive Bachelors With That Elusive Woman Since 2001


Complete the men’s form as you scroll, and get on our short list for a free 1-hour “Find Your Soulmate Now” coaching session with Christine Stelmack, a 16-year veteran in the elite matchmaking industry – normally this is a $300 session.

1.During this session, you’ll discover the kind of woman you’d like to attract and the kind of relationship you’d like to have together.

2.We’ll uncover hidden challenges that could be sabotaging your success with women in dating.

3. You’ll leave the session renewed, re-energized and inspired to finally attract the woman of your dreams once and for all!

SPECIAL NOTE: This free session is for executive men (and entrepreneurs) with an annual income of $350K or greater. If this is you, complete our form now.

Are you a healthy, nice-looking and successful bachelor in your early 50’s to 60-something – ready to find love, but too busy to find her?

Do you find online dating difficult, disheartening and time consuming?

Want to discuss what type woman is a perfect
match for you and suits your life story?

Then it’s time to schedule a forthright chat with our president and chief matchmaker,
Christine Stelmack (she works one-on-one with select clientele throughout the U.S.)

Ask Chris how 4M differs from other high-end matchmaking agencies. She is more than happy to share with you.





2. ONE-ON-ONE CHAT WITH CHRIS (No Sales Hype, No pressure, Ever.)


3. WHEN HIRING THE 4M CLUB:  We search for compatible matches right away, share recent photos with you and interview in-depth those women who interest you. You and Chris powwow together.


4. You choose who you wish to meet first, and we do our magic to make it happen!  Chris is your “confidante” and advisor throughout this exclusive matchmaking experience (and you are never left hanging.)



''Thanks to 4M and Chris specifically, I never have to do online dating again. I always had to be super careful anyway because of my position, but now 4M takes the pressure off. Honestly, the time I wasted online I can never get back. I have already met two equally great ladies in less than 7-weeks after signing up with 4M. One match lives in NYC and the other in L.A. I wanted to meet a third, but Chris mentioned this is about finding THE ONE, not multiple women like you do online. She rightly pointed out let’s do a process of elimination with 1 or 2 women, before we proceed any further—if it even gets there, as my first match I am already planning a 2nd date this weekend cross country! Chris can be tough, but always fair. Okay, she’s actually super easy to talk and share with, something I really appreciate.''

MARK G. (Sr.VP, Fortune 500 company), NEW YORK CITY, NY

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''4M Club makes confidentiality a priority. I was skeptical of matchmaking in general, but Chris’s professional approach and friendly demeanor put me at ease. I travel a lot and Chris gave me a few more months extended on my contract. I have been dating the same woman for 7-months now after meeting only 2 others. I don’t know what the future brings, but my present couldn’t be happier.''

J.M. (Fortune 100 tech company), SAN FRANCISCO, CA


''What’s interesting is I live in L.A. by the ocean, home to some of the most beautiful women in the world. I figured why should I hire 4M when I can meet anyone anytime. I realized at my age, 53, no matter how nice looking and younger than my years I am, I still was not meeting the type woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I am from the Midwest originally, so in my heart of hearts, I preferred meeting someone anywhere but here. And I did. Chris introduced me to a beautiful and really sweet woman in Portland. On the plus side, she is originally from Wisconsin like I am. We got married a little over 2-years ago and my wife and I now share the California sunshine together (yes, just like Chris says, the lady really does move to be with her man.) We recently met up with Chris in Seattle and we all enjoyed a beautiful dinner on top of the Space Needle—mostly to thank her in person again. It was great to see you, Chris—keep on matching wonderful people together like you do.''

AARON S. & BECKY S. (CEO & Entrepreneur, Men & Women’s Fashion), SANTA MONICA, CA

''I have worked with Chris on and off for 9-years now. I would never consider another matchmaker, because Chris knows “my type” and the woman I ultimately want to spend the rest of my life with. I’ve had a couple serious long-term relationships during this time, both long-distance. Even though they didn’t result in marriage, the quality of women Chris brings to the table is by far superior to other elite matchmakers I worked with long before signing up with 4M. Thanks, Chris, for being my confidante and I know one day you are fixing me up with the woman I will marry.''

RUSSELL D. (Partner & Entrepreneur), WASHINGTON D.C.

''Chris still doesn’t know why I made her sweat it out over 2 years before I hired 4M, not to punish her though. As a divorced 61-year-old owner of a large manufacturing company, I just never thought I would need a matchmaking service in my life. I thought wrong. Chris, you treat me amazing and I only wish I signed up the day I spoke to you. Better late than never I guess.''

R.L. (CEO, entrepreneur/manufacturer), RALEIGH, NC

''Chris and 4M have been part of my life a couple years now. I travel quite a bit and I've met some real quality women through her agency. I would say all marriage material, but I am almost 51 and being cautious this time around. I've been through two divorces and want to make sure third is the charm. I know I will end up marrying one of Chris’s introductions. She likes to remind me it’s time already, and I agree with her.

P.V. (President, Real Estate Development), SCOTTSDALE, AZ

 MEN SIGN-UP FORM (takes under 3-minutes)

 If you’re a single, super successful man (executive or entrepreneur), from any major U.S. city or coastal town, please complete our short and confidential form. Chris wants to get to know you better, before you two have a friendly chat.

Chris will also personally review your information and email you to arrange a good day and time to speak by phone.  If you have a quick question or two beforehand, contact her anytime at

Qualified Men Call Chris on M-F, 10:00am-5pm PST OFFICE DIRECT LINE: 1-206-270-9100

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''Chris’s passion and transparency really shine through when you speak with her. I love her no-nonsense directness (she says it’s because she’s from the Midwest.) I don’t know about that, but I do know her own openness makes you want to open up to her.''


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''Because of 4M and Chris, I have been married now to my husband almost 11-years now. I told Chris at my wedding she was our angel, and we will never forget how we met. Our deepest and sincerest thank you from us both!


''When I signed up with 4M, I figured I’d never get a call since men hire them and women can’t be guaranteed a match like the men. Well, not only did Chris call me 4-months after I signed up, but I am still dating the wonderful man she introduced me to 18-months later! Thank you, Chris, saving me from online dating ever again. ''



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