Qualified Millionaire Bachelor? Call Chris' personal cell to discuss privately at 1-206-372-5798 (11am-4pm PST + weekends), or email We are matching during Covid-19 in 2021.



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This is upscale matchmaking offline for mature (divorced or widowed), professional millionaire men, typically in your early 50’s and 60’s.  You are seeking a true partner-in-life (a healthy, beautiful, intelligent and educated woman) for “forever love.”

You can’t seem to find her.

You earn a minimum $500K annual income (usually more), with net worth rarely less than $5M and generally $10M and greater.

We don’t dig into your financials ever. You know if you qualify or not.

As an established, elite matchmaking service, men pay a generous five-figure fee and sometimes six-figures, for our matchmaking services (similar to executive recruiting.) We guarantee 100% matches YOU approve first.

Please don’t worry if your net worth is $10M or $100M – this is NOT a contest.  Ever.  What you choose to disclose is kept 100% confidential between you and our agency.  It has no bearing on who we match you up with or not.  All is fair game the minute you hire us.

The 4M Club, a boutique matchmaking business for 20-years, was founded in 2001.  You will work with Christine Stelmack, a world class elite matchmaker, who always has your best interests at heart.

If you prefer using an online dating site or app “swapping left and right,” this is NOT for you. 

If you have considered hiring a premier matchmaking service with the owner working one-on-one with you, UNTIL she finds your match, then continue reading on.

Let’s face it.  An available man of significant wealth faces a difficult time finding a woman who will love him for who he is and not his wallet.

We conduct this incredibly important search for you.  We select smart, kind, beautiful and intelligent career women you desire – and eliminate the insincere or financially clueless.

We’ve had many successful long-term relationships under our belt and a good number of marriages over the years.  All started out long-distance, and ended up in the man’s city.

You’re a very successful, busy man (and well-seasoned traveler), who doesn’t hang out at bars or clubs – nor do you participate anymore in the competitiveness and deception of online dating.  And you don’t date your employees (ever.)  That’s why you seek our help.

We work one-on-one with you, and we represent a small group of select bachelors around the country – who don’t mind meeting their potential soulmate from anywhere in the U.S.  If you travel frequently and are adventuresome, this is the perfect luxury service for you.

No gold diggers knowingly allowed in our agency.

While our male clientele don’t ever care what a woman does for a living – we care for you.

The CAREER women we represent generally earn on average $85K annual income and oftentimes much more. They don’t need a rich man to visit London, for example. They can afford to travel on their own.

That’s why women we choose must be educated and fully employed and make minimum $55K to even be considered (yes, there are exceptions, since we know you don’t care how much a woman earns.)

We also perform tedious, professional background checks and 2-3 hour interviews with each woman we hand-select to be part of our group. 

Who does that?   WE DO!  
From what we’re told, no other elite agency is as invested in our women candidates as us.

Unlike other agencies, we never charge women to apply  – because we choose who YOU want to meet.  Women who feel compelled to pay for a matchmaker, are usually not the women our clients would ever date.  Sure there are exceptions, but we decided when we launched 20 years ago, that this is a service solely for the highly accomplished man – they decide who they date and “hire” us.

We spend copious amounts of time and marketing pre-qualifying women we wish to have on board (that’s why only 1 or 2  for every 20 applicants make the cut.)  We have to be that picky, because you are!

Along with our continuous advertising throughout the U.S., this sets us apart from most (and also network with our outstanding women candidates.)  We do this to keep our “inventory” of truly desirable women always fresh and current.

It’s in your best interest presenting you exceptional women – unlike ladies of all ages and looks (or lack of), who will pay an agency to be guaranteed dates.

YOU, on the other hand, are 100% guaranteed introductions YOU choose to meet – if you decline someone we present you, then it’s on to the next candidate.  You receive at least 3-5 photos (always current) and a bio of any lady we present you.

4M’s founder, Chris Stelmack, is known to be THE Photo Nazi – because no client of hers has ever met someone different, other than most current pictures she shares with you.

In other words, no surprises when you meet your match in person.

Chris’s phone chats with 4M women candidates can also be quite eye-opening. She digs deep and you’re always kept in the loop.

AND, after each introduction, our agency receives a comprehensive “first date” report from your match  –  because Chris always lets you know where you stand, with any new woman you meet.

We match our men clients with cream-of-crop women from late 30’s to late 50’s. Physically beautiful, slender, educated, intelligent, healthy, athletic, working, interesting and sweet.

Because that’s what you want!

Our successful and picky clients demand THE WHOLE PACKAGE – and while beauty is important to you, it’s never at the expense of  other great qualities you deserve with the right woman.


Finally, we are opposite of a “Sugar Daddy” site.

If you are looking for women half your age and totally dependent on you, then please enlist at for $29.99 a month.  Because this is not what elite matchmaking or 4M Club is about, nor is that our client base. 


Our selected bachelors are not only incredibly successful, but classy, forthright, intelligent good men and in a league of their own. 

If you have more money than time – and your current lifestyle won’t change by hiring a professional matchmaker – you’re our perfect client.

It’s okay if you’re not there yet – but our “financially independent only” target market has been very specific since Chris Stelmack started the 4M Club in 2001.  We’re proud to service this niche group – catering to a specific crowd of incredibly busy, wealthy bachelors desiring our expertise (and because we bring results.)

We make unrequited LOVE happen!

Our clients have run the gamut from heading Fortune 500 companies, Hollywood film producers, CEO’s, senior executives, real estate developers, physicians, owners of manufacturing companies, retail titans, or the solo and independent entrepreneur who is a “quiet” millionaire.

All enjoy their successful lifestyle, are financially independent, super smart and lack nothing – EXCEPT, that exceptional woman in life.

We work with men who are single-never-married, legally divorced or widowed.  If you’re legally separated and not officially divorced yet, Chris can still speak with you and answer your questions – but we must work with completely “unencumbered” clients.

It’s worth repeating that when you hire us privately, the 4M Club commands a 5-figure upfront retainer fee.

We are also bestowed a success bonus by our millionaire clientele – for those who get engaged; marry or move in together; or date exclusively for at least 1-year.  Whichever event happens first, we consider a success.  Our clients have always felt this fair.



We are the only elite agency to offer a ONE YEAR GUARANTEE after any success bonus is earned. That means if there is a break-up during that 1-year period, we work with you again at no extra fee.

We do this to build solid relationships with our millionaire clientele – whom we appreciate so much.

If YOU believe you qualify and wish to consult with Chris, she is very happy to answer your questions and learn more about you.

To quietly and privately discuss your options, please contact Chris now – or email her to schedule a phone chat.

Please note, we are on Pacific Coast time. Weekends are fine to contact, if you are unable to reach Chris during normal business hours.

Qualified Men Apply Now By Clicking Here.

CONTACT INFO:  Chris’ direct office line: 1-206-285-0303  Chris’ Cell on weekends: 1-206-372-5798   Email:




''4M Club makes confidentiality a priority. I was skeptical of matchmaking in general, but Chris’s professional approach and friendly demeanor put me at ease. I travel a lot and Chris gave me a few more months extended on my contract. I have been dating the same woman for 7-months now after meeting only 2 women. I don’t know what the future brings, but my present couldn’t be happier.''

J.M. (C-level, Fortune 100 tech company), SAN FRANCISCO, CA

''Chris still doesn’t know why I made her sweat it out over 2 years before I hired 4M, not to punish her though. As a divorced 61-year-old owner of a large manufacturing company, I just never thought I would need a matchmaking service in my life. I thought wrong. Chris, you treat me amazing and I only wish I signed up the day I spoke to you. Better late than never I guess.''

R.L. (CEO, entrepreneur/manufacturer), RALEIGH, NC


''What’s interesting is I live in Los Angeles near the ocean, home to some of the most beautiful women in the world. I figured why should I hire 4M when I can meet anyone anytime. I realized at my age, 53, no matter how good looking and ||younger than my years|| I know I am, I still was not meeting the type woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I am from the Midwest originally, so in my heart of hearts, I preferred meeting someone anywhere but here. And I did. Chris introduced me to a beautiful and really sweet woman in Portland. On the plus side, she is originally from Wisconsin like I am. We got married a little over 2-years ago and my wife and I share our love and the California sunshine together (yes, just like Chris says, the lady really does move to be with her man.) We recently met up with Chris in Seattle and we all enjoyed a beautiful dinner on top of the Space Needle—mostly to thank Chris in person again. It was great to see you, Chris—keep on matching wonderful people together like you do.''

AARON S. & BECKY S. (CEO & Entrepreneur, Men & Women's Fashion), SANTA MONICA, CA

''Chris and 4M have been part of my life a couple years now. I travel quite a bit and I've met some real quality women through her agency. I would say all marriage material, but I am almost 51 and being cautious this time around. I've been through two divorces and want to make sure third is the charm. I know I will end up marrying one of Chris’s introductions. She likes to remind me it’s time already, and all I can say is I agree Chris.''

P.V. (President, Real Estate Development), SCOTTSDALE, AZ

''Thanks to 4M and Chris specifically, I never have to do online dating again. I always had to be super careful anyway because of my position, but now 4M takes the pressure off. Honestly, the time I wasted online I can never get back. I have already met two equally great ladies in less than 7-weeks after signing up with Chris. One lives in NYC and the other in L.A. I wanted to meet a third, but Chris pointed out this is about finding THE ONE, not multiple women like you do online. She rightly pointed out let’s do a process of elimination with 1 or 2, before we proceed—if it even gets to that point, as my first match I am planning for a 2nd date this weekend cross country! Chris can be tough, but always fair. Okay, she’s also super easy to talk to, something I appreciate.''

MARK G. (C-level, Fortune 500 financial company), NEW YORK CITY, NY

''I have worked with Chris on and off for 9-years now. I would never consider another matchmaker, because Chris knows “my type” and the woman I ultimately want to spend the rest of my life with. I’ve had a couple serious long-term relationships during this time, both long-distance. Even though they didn’t result in marriage, the quality of women Chris brings to the table is by far superior to other elite matchmakers I worked with long before signing up with 4M. Thanks, Chris, for being my confidante and I know one day you are fixing me up with the woman I will marry.''

RUSSELL D. (Senior Partner & Entrepreneur), WASHINGTON D.C.

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